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Post by OnlyMe on Nov 9, 2002 12:25:17 GMT -5
vicky is confusing me so much! we went swimmin last nite and finally got to talk. i didnt really get much out of her. she jus said she was still confused about being bi/gay whatever, i asked her if she thought she may be bi-curiouse and she said yes, so where does that leave me when the curiosity goes away? I think she may be embarressed about bein wit a girl? she doesnt want ppl to judge her or not accept her 4 what she is. i think she just likes to blend in with the crowd and bein with a girl would make her stand out. I'm jus assuming this seen as she hasn't actually talked to me properly!! i love her like i never loved anyone b4 and im so scared she'll hurt me and leave me.
She says she loves me but its her 1st proper relationship so how can she tell? oh why does love hurt so much??
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Post by Kathy on Nov 10, 2002 14:56:00 GMT -5
No wonder you're confused, it sounds like vicky is pretty confused herself. How old is she? Maybe she just needs more time? It's too bad she won't talk to you much about it, but ya can't really force people into conversations.  If you care about her, I guess you'll just have to keep being patient. |
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Post by OnlyMe on Nov 11, 2002 12:53:36 GMT -5
she is 16, and im am giving her time. u r soo rite about not being able 2 force conversation, its like gettin blood out a stone with her! women grrr
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Post by gem on Dec 14, 2002 18:56:59 GMT -5
i had this problem to with a girl, its difficult when they wont come out.
this is a common problem with a lot of disabled women i know who are in the closet completely.
its hard but it you love each other, you will be ok. just hav 2 b patient and try and gently encourage her to speak!
gem
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Post by PurplySparkleyJoey on Dec 18, 2002 10:36:16 GMT -5
Gem angel, i know you and Vix have split up now, but i have to say .. the things that have happened over the past few months shouldnt have happened to any one!! You are better off with out you ... and your friends (thats where i come in  : will help you though angel xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by OnlyMe on Dec 18, 2002 13:38:40 GMT -5
thankyouuuuu! and welcome back joey! just 2 let u no i spoke 2 vic last nite and its made me feel so much better. she is not a nice person and is very screwed up! i feel like i can really move on now and i even told jon i was willing 2 giv it a go (curiosity has got the better of me!) but i swear i wont hurt him cus i no wot it feels like! thanx 4 the advice mwah xxxxxxxx  |
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